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« on: June 05, 2008, 07:31:05 PM »

If you had a choice to know the exact time of day and how you would die would you choose to know?  Cheesy

Just a question Ive thought about before and wondered if others would choose as I would... I choose not to know. I like suprises! lol!  Smilewinkgrin
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« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2008, 08:44:28 PM »

Hmmm.. no. If I did know, I would think of nothing else and would miss out on living and loving life.
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« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2008, 08:55:17 PM »

Greetings Linz.

I agree with Larae on this.
There are just some things you really don`t want to know. This is one of them.

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« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2008, 09:12:02 PM »

Yes, I have to say I agree also that I'd rather not know. Heck that takes all the fun out of dying.  Cool Yes, of course that last part was in jest.

Seriously, it would be akin to having an inside view of what might have happened, should one have taken a left turn in life instead of the right turn that landed them where one is. To lament what might have been, instead of the magic and the beauty of where one is currently, with all of ones challenges, ones sorrows and ones victories that make up that flavor of life as Shakespeare noted: "And this, our life, exempt from public haunt, finds tongues in trees, books in the running brooks, sermons in stones, and good in everything."

He had to be an intimately soulfully aware individual!

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« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2008, 09:18:46 PM »

Hi Wilhelm:

Yes it would help to focus the present.  When I was 14 years of age I played with some numbers and came up with a number more than 4 decades in the future.  It was the weirdest feeling and I knew it was true, the date of my demise.  OK the year came and I was taken by surprise by what occured.  But as a precaution I started to complete certain projects.  It did pay off.  Somehow I survived.  What I don't know is why and what my purpose is in this life?

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« Reply #5 on: June 05, 2008, 11:50:20 PM »

Yeah definitely ! I want to know!

I'm just "dying" of curiosity, I would want to know,

On the practical side, I would want to know because with knowledge came Power.

Power to avoid it perhaps?  Power to make it more easier, or to make the most of what is left to live.

But seriously I have in the back of my soul a tiny voice that tell me I will live forever! so I will be very curious to see if that is true !

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« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2008, 02:45:02 AM »

I'd wanna know. I too, am "dying" to know what mission or whatever I hafta fulfill.

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« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2008, 02:54:02 AM »

Wow... I would have thought everyone would say heck no! lol   Smiley

I know if I knew when that day was to arrive  I would not be able to enjoy everyday like it was my last. I would be dreading that day always, thinking of what I have to fulfill before the day is over so I would have time to do things Ive always wanted the next days. If I even had that long to live...

I still say heck no... I love living life without knowing what is coming next. I mean I love to plan ahead and be prepared for certain things, but not death. If death comes upon swift wings to find me then it is so. That's what was meant to be for this life.
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« Reply #8 on: June 06, 2008, 04:57:38 AM »

 I wouldn't want to know for the same reason as Larae said, I would obsess over it. The only perk I can see in knowing is you could take risks that maybe you wouldn't before such as sky diving, or deep sea diving.
  In theory you could say that since you know when you're going to die that knowing your fate would alter destiny, and thus a new fate would be assigned since there is cause and reaction in everything. Yet, maybe knowing your fate would in turn mean you were suppose to know and that enabled you to begin to live the life you didn't think you would... ah, too many parallels!
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« Reply #9 on: June 06, 2008, 09:15:06 AM »

Well for me waiting that day would not make me afraid or obsessed, as I truly believe  death is just some paper work in the great institution that is called the universe!

I do not fear death, truly, one of my first post was called "the day I died", maybe it make me immune?

On the other hand, if I only have a day or two, or even a few weeks I would really be pissed off! 

And to follow Erych's brain jest,:

Maybe the fact that you know is necessary, so you achieve every step that led to this death ?
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« Reply #10 on: June 07, 2008, 01:14:25 AM »

I would rather not know, and even if I did I don't think it could be avoided. When I was younger my mother worried about me going for walks late at night in our local graveyard, she worried that something would happen I upset her one night before I had left when I told her that if the fates have it wrote out that on that day I was to meet my demise it would happen no matter what I was doing, rather I stay home or not. I still see it this way, when the day comes it will happen till then I live my life to the fullest I can and do my best to make each day count.

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« Reply #11 on: June 07, 2008, 01:18:01 AM »


And to follow Erych's brain jest,:

Maybe the fact that you know is necessary, so you achieve every step that led to this death ?

  That's pretty much what I was getting at, you explained it much more direct than I; thankyou.

  To comment on your post because it seems like a fun mini-topic, I wonder if people are more afraid of being dead or just going through the act of dying. There is so much to do in life so to be able to experiance all that one would want in life is definitely desirable, but growing old and feeble and slowly dying sounds terrible. I would hate to end life too early, and I don't live all that healthy of a lifestyle I wouldn't want things to drag on so in some way I would hope to go out in a bang at just the right time.
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« Reply #12 on: June 07, 2008, 12:36:52 PM »

I have to agree with Erych...The only perk I can see in knowing is you could take risks that maybe you wouldn't before such as sky diving, or deep sea diving....
Because I took some chances that I wouldn't normaly do and came through OK.
Based on the belief it wasn't my time yet *LOL*  Those instances saved others lives and I received Citations.  But it was only afterwards the full impact of the danger sunk in. 

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« Reply #13 on: June 09, 2008, 09:28:46 AM »

I would definitely want to know for lots and lots of reasons....

One reason would be that if I knew, I could let my loved ones know as well. They would have time to prepare themselves and it wouldn't be such a shock to them. 
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« Reply #14 on: June 09, 2008, 02:46:18 PM »

I have a male friend who was convinced that he knew when he would die. All of the men in his family died at the same age (I believe it was 38), all different circumstances but none of them had made it past that age. His father, his grandfather, uncles, cousins, they all passed on at this age. Due to this he was convinced that he wouldn't make it past that age either, statistically speaking his odds were not good.

He lived his life wildly and with no plans for the future. Why make plans if you aren't going to be around to enjoy them? The years went on, the date was fast approaching, it seemed to be always on his mind. That fateful year, as each day went on he felt it was one day closer to death.

Somehow that day never came, a blessing he wasn't prepared for or expecting. He was quite shocked to have not only surpassed his fateful moment but beat the odds put into play generations before. On an even better note, somehow the cycle was broken, he is no longer the only man in his family to live beyond that age.

He told me that having that knowledge kept him from living. That not knowing would have made his life a lot different than it had become. Now he lives his life, that target was lifted from him and with it a new outlook on the world around him.

So if I had a choice to know when I would die, I would most definitely NOT want to know. It will happen when it is meant to happen, beyond that I feel ignorance is bliss.
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